maggiefan
Written on Nov 25, 2020
Love, Victor is now a major TV series on Dinsey+, set in the world of the hit film Love, Simon
I don't entirely understand how anyone gets a boyfriend. Or a girlfriend. It just seems like the most impossible odds. A perfect alignment of feelings and circumstances . . .
Molly Peskin-Suso knows all about unrequited love. No matter how many times her twin sister, Cassie, tells her to woman up, Molly is always careful. Better to be careful than be hurt.
But when Cassie gets a new girlfriend who comes with a cute hipster-boy sidekick, everything changes. Will is funny, flirtatious and basically the perfect first boyfriend.
There's only one problem: Molly's coworker, Reid: the awkward Tolkien superfan she could never fall for . . . right?
A heartwarming and hilarious story about growing up and learning to be comfortable in your own skin.
Praise for Becky Albertalli:
'The love child of John Green and Rainbow Rowell' Teen Vogue
'I love you, Simon. I love you! And I love this fresh, funny, live-out-loud book.' Jennifer Niven, New York Times bestselling author of All the Bright Places
'A remarkable gift of a novel.' Andrew Smith, author of Grasshopper Jungle
'Both hilarious and heartbreaking . . . Readers will fall madly in love with Simon' Publishers Weekly (starred review)
'A brilliant beacon of optimism and cuteness for LGBTQA+ youth in a genre often bogged down with tragedy and heartbreak. Books like SIMON do change people's lives' Waterstones Darlington Bookseller
'A wonderfully charismatic story about coming-of-age and coming out'. Bookseller
'Funny, moving and emotionally wise' Kirkus Reviews (starred)
'It made me laugh, cry and all the fifty shades of emotions I can think of right now. There is literally no adjectives that would be suffice to describe how brilliant this book is' Goodreads (5 star review)
'I think I just felt my heart explode in my chest' Goodreads (5 star review)
'One of the most electric, authentic characters I've ever read. . . I LOVE this book. LOVE it. Five freaking stars.' Goodreads (5 Stars)
Becky Albertalli is the author of the acclaimed novels Simon Vs the Homo Sapiens Agenda and The Upside of Unrequited. She is a clinical psychologist who specializes in working with children and teens. Becky now lives with her family in Atlanta, where she spends her days writing fiction for young adults.
- ISBN10 0141356111
- ISBN13 9780141356112
- Publish Date 11 April 2017
- Publish Status Active
- Publish Country GB
- Imprint Penguin Books Ltd
- Format Paperback (B-Format (198x129 mm))
- Pages 368
- Language English
Reviews
Steph L
Written on Nov 18, 2020
This book is so much fun. It’s part of the Simonverse which includes Simon Vs the Homo Sapiens Agenda, Leah on the Offbeat, and Love Creekwood. I enjoyed the characters in this book, and I loved the plot. I feel a lot of readers can relate to Molly, or another character in this novel.
alindstadtcorbeax
Written on May 21, 2020
*SIGH*
Just another amazing Simonverse book.
What else can I say? I am such a fangirl over this series.
This WAS my least fav of the 3, but thats not saying much of anything because I absolutely loved all three- I rated Simon vs. The Homo-Sapiens Agenda (Simonverse #1) 5 Stars, Leah On The Offbeat (Simonverse #3) 4.5 Stars, and OBVIOUSLY, this book (Simonverse #2) 4 Stars... So obviously I am head-over-heels for the Simonverse books
I did read them out of order because I wanted more books with the same people first, I reallyreally wanted to be in Leah’s head first. I NEEDED more Leah first, haha. But Molly’s story was GREAT! Just preference in my opinion!
kiracanread
Written on Apr 3, 2020
A heartwarming ya romance.
readingwithbecs
Written on Sep 21, 2018
So relateable! Was like reading my own 17 year old mindset.
Liz (Bent Bookworm)
Written on Aug 6, 2018
Molly is a mess. A shy, self-conscious, boy-obsessed mess. She’s seventeen, has never had a boyfriend or even kissed a boy, and she hates it. She has had twenty-six crushes, none of which panned out for her. She thinks and worries (and people often comment along the same lines) that she is fat, too fat to be attractive to any boys.
First of all – geez louise! I know I was definitely more relationship and (in my case) boy obsessed when I was sixteen, seventeen, or eighteen years old than I am now or have ever been since, but DEAR GOD ALMIGHTY it is literally all this girl thinks about. She has a couple of other interests, but appears to have never given even a slight thought to what she wants to do with those interests after high school. College is mentioned, but only as an annoyance, because of adults asking what colleges she has applied to. Goals? What are goals? It seems so odd to have little to no interest in one’s future. I also remember that four years felt like an eternity at seventeen, or even at twenty-two. So I get some of that – but not all. Molly just seems so extremely focused on boys, their attractiveness, their potential to be boyfriend or hookup material…it seems excessive and concerned me. If she was a friend of mine I would be staging an intervention, not trying to goad her on or set her up with whatever eligible guy I could find.
That said, of course most people want to be a relationship of some kind, with another person or people. There are many different kinds of relationships – MANY of which are modeled in this book, hurray! Everyone deserves to be happy and to be loved. However, I think it’s very unhealthy to look to a relationship for one’s happiness. Another person can never make you happy if you are unhappy with yourself – as Molly definitely seems to be, despite her moms and other friends constantly trying to build up her self worth. However, Molly tends to be very selfish and focused inward, only looking at situations from the point of view of how they effect HER.
Molly especially struggles with her twin sister’s new relationship. She becomes jealous of Cassie’s girlfriend and all the time they spend together. Just like we have all had the friend who started dating someone new and fell off the face of the earth. Eventually she does realize that this is a season, and that things will change throughout their lives, and she comes more to terms with her sister having a life separate from her.
We might see each other every day. We might see each other once a year. Maybe it will ebb and flow and change with the decades. Maybe we’ll never pin it down. I think every relationship is actually a million relationships.
^Best quote of the book, there. Not that Cassie is an angel, by any means. While Molly clearly adores her twin, Cassie also takes advantage of her in a lot of ways and is rather insensitive to her feelings.
GOOD STUFF:
Lots, and lots of diverse representation – LOTS! Molly has two moms, one of which is bisexual, there are gay, lesbian, and pansexual characters, as well as people of all different ethnic backgrounds. It made my heart happy.
Mental health treatment - Molly takes medication for her mental health. It’s not made a big deal of, it is just NORMAL, and I think that is so important.
Excellent writing – the style was entertaining and easy to read. I read this in less than 3 hours, not counting breaks. Will definitely pick up another of Albertalli’s books.
I just could not get on board with Molly, even while I did understand that some of what seemed to be selfishness was really anxiety. Anxiety can sometimes makes people appear to be selfish when really what they’re worried about is taking care of someone, or worried they will offend or hurt someone. I felt bad for her, but I was horrified by the implications of the conclusion, even if it was sweet and made me say “Awwwww!” for a few seconds. The content and conclusion are what really made me lower my rating, the writing itself was quite excellent. So, I’ll give the author another try and see.
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Preordered! Ebook, because I'll be in the process of moving when this comes out.
lisacee
Written on Jun 21, 2018
bumblingbookworm
Written on Jan 28, 2018
I just HAD to pick this up after seeing Love Simon last week - I was desperate for Leah on the Offbeat, but it doesn't come out until May and this was the next best thing. I needed more awesome Becky Albertalli books in my life, and this definitely delivered! This was just an adorable and swoony contemporary YA novel, I would've read this in one sitting if I'd had the time - so friggin' good. Why I waited this long to read it is beyond me... What can I say, procrastination is my middle name!
I identified 100% with Molly, especially all of her crushes - that was me in high school, most definitely. I adored the diversity in this novel, particularly how it just wasn't a big deal and it all felt so natural. There was POC rep, racial diversity, mental health rep, LGBTQIA+ rep and same sex relationships. One of Molly's past crushes was on a transgender boy and this wasn't a big deal, it just was what it was and I bloody loved that. Add to that the cameos from some of our old friends in Simon vs The Homo Sapiens Agenda, and I was completely sold. TL:DR - everything Becky Albertalli writes is pure gold - 5 stars.
Check out the rest of my review here!
Jo
Written on Jan 28, 2018
It's taken me quite a while to read The Upside of Unrequited by Becky Albertalli, despite thinking it sounded really good. This is mainly because I was a little disappointed with her debut novel, Simon Vs the Homo Sapiens Agenda. So I dithered, until recently. And now I wish I had picked it up much sooner, because this book is perfect. I have a hell of a lot to say about this book, so be warned: this review is likely to be pretty long.
Molly has had 26 crushes in her life, and nothing came of any of them, because she never did anything about it. Why? Because she's fat, and fat girls always get rejected, so what's the point? But when her twin sister ends up falling head over heels for Mina, Molly feels like they're drifting apart. They're so close, but now Molly feels like she's being forgotten. So when it seems like there's a faint possibility Mina's cute friend Will may like Molly, too, she decides not to be careful any more. It looks like it might be possible this time, so why not go for it? And as he's best friends with Mina, it'll mean not losing Cassie so much. But Molly is getting on really well with her co-worker, geeky, sweet Reid. It's so easy with him, and he's cute - even if he does where a lot of Game of Thrones and Tolkien t-shirts. Molly suddenly realises she's crushing on Reid, too. And there's more than a faint possibility that he might like her back. But Reid won't help her get her sister back.
This book is absolutely wonderful. Yes, it's a sweet, funny, cute romance, and just so adorable, but it's also a lot more than that. At least it is so for me. I related to Molly so much more than I ever expected to. Molly has issues about her weight. Or rather, other people have issues about her weight. All her life she has had people comment and insult her. Her Grandma Betty tells her she should go on a diet, a random boy tells her she's gorgeous for a heavy girl, and when she was younger, she was picked on for it. Some people, especially her Grandma, are well-meaning, but they don't realise just how much their words hurt. And I really got that. Some context: I look nothing like Molly. Instead, from the age of 14 to 28, I was the other end of the scale; due to a fast metabolism, I was underweight - super skinny. Gaining weight was a struggle, losing weight was super easy, so I had to be very careful when it came to eating. And, like with Molly, people always felt the need to comment. Random old ladies on the street loud-whispering "She's so skinny!" with disgust in their voice. Random guy in the pub saying, "You need to put on some weight, girl!" At a publishing event, where we're discussing the cover of a book, and the girl on the cover's skinniness is brought up - a girl who looks exactly like me, frame and size-wise, and the woman sitting right next to me says, "She's doesn't even look attractive." An older family member telling me they wouldn't be surprised if I died before they did. So I knew exactly what Molly was feeling - even though I fully acknowledge that, even with all the grief I got, my size was still more socially acceptable than being fat*, which is such crap.
I've read a number of books where the main characters were fat, and they also got grief for it, but there's a difference with The Upside of Unrequited. And the other books, most of the main characters had negative body image, so the focus was specifically on what they looked like, and how they felt about it. But with The Upside of Unrequited, it's not Molly's body that's the problem, it's what other people think about her size, and how they seem to think it's ok to comment on her body. Sure, what's said affects how she sees herself, but she doesn't actually hate herself because of her size; it's other people's comments that truly sting. And I cannot tell you how much I related to her. Reading this book brought back some painful memories, and my heart broke for Molly and for teenage me, but I also felt like I could cry in relief, because someone actually gets it. Someone knows how that feels, and there's validation in that.
And then there's the romance side of things, which actually relates. People's comments affect the way Molly sees herself, and how she sees herself affects how she's unable to comprehend the idea that a guy could find her attractive. And I got this, too. I never had a boyfriend when I was a teenager, and I feared one of the reasons why was because of how I looked. I just wasn't what was attractive. Curvy is what is attractive, and I have never been curvy. I more resembled a pencil. I completely understood why Molly found it really hard to imagine that anyone could find her attractive. And how hard it was for her to see other people coupling up - and seeming to drift away from her - when they seem to find it so easy, when people always fancy them, when it seems like the same for her is a complete impossibility. There's such great sadness and loneliness in that. So when it seems like there are two guys who are into her? As she is? Without changing? She can't quite believe it. And it was so, so wonderful to see her slowly come to realise that maybe she isn't unattractive, that guys might actually like her. Seriously, it made me so blood happy, it brought tears to my eyes. And I was rooting for one of those guys so much! Oh, it was just completely, completely beautiful. And it just made me feel so hopeful, for those teens who felt like I did, like Molly does that they'll realise you don't have to fit ridiculous, impossible beauty standards to be beautiful. That they are already enough as they are. And there are those who will fancy them, even if they think there won't be - not that that's anywhere near as important as them realising that they are enough already, without a girl/boyfriend telling them so, but just to believe that it's possible... I know this book would have meant the world to me, and I believe it will do for teens today.
I want to talk about mental illness for a moment. Molly has anxiety, but this isn't a story that is about Molly having anxiety. She just happens to have anxiety. I know there are some people who don't like the idea of characters who "just happen to be X minority", because your marginalisations are a massive part of who you are. And I get that. I, too, have anxiety, and though it doesn't define who I am, it is a huge part of my life, even when I'm doing ok; even if months go by where I'm not anxious, there's still the part of me, who thinks of myself as a ticking time bomb, who is quietly scared of when I will next go off. But the point is, there are times when people with mental illness do ok. You can't cure a mental illness, but you can get better. Most of books that feature mental illness are during a time when the main character is in the grips of their mental illness, and they mostly end on a hopeful note, that they can get better. The Upside of Unrequited actually shows a character while they are better. Molly has to take medication every day, there are mentions of past panic attacks, and decisions whether she should drink alcohol or not, as she's not supposed to with her medication, but she's mostly pretty much fine throughout the book. Taking her medication is like brushing her teeth, it's so normal, and something she doesn't even really think about. And it's so refreshing to see a character with mental illness who is doing ok, and so important! Because it shows those with mental illness that you can be ok, and also shows those who don't have it that people with mental illness are not really any different from them, that we're not crazy or unstable, we just have an illness, and it doesn't have to/always rule our lives. And I love that!
And while we're on the subject of marginalised groups, The Upside of Unrequited is so diverse! Molly has anxiety, as we know, and is Jewish, as is most of her family (as is Albertalli, making t #OwnVoices). Her sister, Cassie is gay, and they have two mums; Patty is bisexual, and Nadine is gay, and also black - and so Molly's extended family on Nadine;s side are also black, and her little brother, Xavier, is biracial. Cassie's girlfriend, Mina, is pansexual and Korean American. And Reid is also Jewish. There are probably other characters who I am forgetting, too. And at first, it seemed rather odd. I questioned why I thought it was so odd, because it's obviously not unrealistic, and then I started to panic, "Do I only know people like me?!" But when I thought about it, I remembered that in my family alone, there are people with mental illnesses, there are people of colour, and people from the LGBTQ* community. I could list a number of people I know from different marginalised groups. So it wasn't my privilege or my social circle. And I realised the reason why it seemed so odd is because I'm not used to seeing this much diversity in a young adult novel. When reading diverse novels, there's maybe one marginalised group that is focused on, and maybe one or two secondary characters from other marginalised groups. I can't really think of many other novels that have such a diverse cast of characters, like The Upside of Unrequited. And I think that's a problem, because it quite clearly is realistic to have a range of different people in your social circle, so why aren't our books just as diverse?
I've probably gone on enough, but The Upside of Unrequited is such an fantastic novel! And it affected me so much more than I could possibly say. I went to bed after finishing it, and just laid there for ages thinking about this book, how it's just so wonderful, and I must admit I did have a little happy cry. I so wish The Upside of Unrequited was out when I was a teenager, because it would have made all the difference to me. But I'm so, so happy it's out now, that it will hopefully find it's way into the hands of a teenager who needs it. The Upside of Unrequited is such an incredible novel, and I am so excited to read Leah on the Offbeat, when it comes out in May.
*I'm using "fat" here as a descriptor, like Molly does, not an insult. "Fat" itself is not derogatory, it's the way it's used that's derogatory.
Thank you to Puffin via NetGalley for the eProof.
ross91
Written on Aug 2, 2017