mrs_mander_reads
Written on Mar 2, 2020
It s 2002, a year after 9/11, and Shirin has just started at yet another school. It s an extremely turbulent time for the world, but especially for someone like Shirin, a sixteen-year old Muslim girl who s tired of being stereotyped. But then she meets Ocean James. He s the first person in forever who really seems to want to get to know Shirin.
- ISBN10 0062866567
- ISBN13 9780062866561
- Publish Date 16 October 2018
- Publish Status Active
- Publish Country US
- Imprint HarperCollins Publishers
- Format Hardcover
- Pages 320
- Language English
Reviews
girlinthepages
Written on Dec 10, 2018
Set in 2002, the story follows Shirin, a Muslim-American girl who must deal with the racist climate of a post 9/11 America, exacerbated by the fact that she wears a hijab which serves as a target for racism and bullying both in high school and within the larger community. Shirin herself is tough as nails and has understandably developed a very jaded attitude from the way she's been treated, and a large part of the story is her learning (painfully, painfully slowly) how to let her guard down with a character who comes from such a vastly different background than her.
While there is definitely a romantic arc that moves the novel along, I found the story to be about so much more than just a romance. It's about the horrors and dehumanization and danger of stereotyping and racism, while also not defining Shirin and her family's struggles by them either- they are still a tight knit group with other interests and priorities (like break dancing, family meals, translating Persian poetry...) despite the constant stress hanging over their heads every day of being the "outsiders" in their predominantly white community. I loved how this story showed a balance of opinions as well- from the outright racist jerks to the characters who really, truly care for Shirin. I also liked how even the well meaning characters weren't perfect, and Shirin did have to struggle with the options of educating them vs. not wanting to be responsible for correcting their misconceptions, which is a huge struggle today. I also appreciated how the story was just not about non-minority characters struggling with bridging the gaps of friendship and relationships with those of different backgrounds, but also Shirin herself having to break down her own defenses that were so deeply rooted within her regarding befriending or being romantically involved with someone from a different background than her (out of self-preservation, but also out of fear and anxiety). While I did at times get frustrated reading about Shirin and Ocean's poor communication choices or stubbornness, it also felt very authentic for two teenagers in the situation that they were in.
While this novel packs an emotional punch on many levels (and gets very deep despite its shorter length- things get WAY out of control by the end of the novel) what resonated the most with me was Mafi's ability to capture so many of those raw, early 2000s teenage emotions and situations so clearly and in a way that will take you back to that time yourself. The thrill of getting an AIM from a classmate, the rush of talking on the phone under the covers to your friends or crush (or sometimes ALL of them at once thanks to the novelty of conference calling at that time) into the early hours of the night- I could picture being in Shirin's shoes so clearly and all of the racing emotions that went with high school at the precipice of a new technological age. Shirin and Ocean's feelings also felt so raw and real and rather than scoffing at them (which sometimes I think is easy to do for older readers reading YA) it felt so believable and emotional- even if you're no longer the age of the characters in the book, you can so clearly remember how life changing those feelings felt at that time.
Though it was a shorter novel, it also manages to paint a full picture of Shirin's family life which I think is so important in YA because at the high school age your siblings and parents are so influential in your life, choices, opportunities, etc. I liked how well balanced Shirin's parents were- as immigrants with their own intense stories they had little sympathy for her high school dramas, but that didn't make them neglectful or uncaring- they still clearly loved their children and made it a point to sit down as a family every night, cook together, etc. I loved the scene where Ocean comes over and they are so excited to showcase their culture and cooking to one of Shirin's friends regardless of his background, and it was a really sweet scene that showed that her parent's were fleshed out characters and not just their to stop her dating life or implement strict rules.
Another powerful part of this story is that Shirin is a very open narrator who's not afraid to voice her perspective, whether to the readers or to other characters. Whether it's calling out a teacher for putting her in an uncomfortable situation purely for shock value and treating her like an object or explaining that she wears a hijab because she enjoys it and it's her body to choose what to do with, it was empowering to see a protagonist who can speak her mind and yet can still be wary and struggle with the weight of the problems of the world.
Overall: In just over 300 pages, A Very Large Expanse of Sea manages to build an emotional and evocative window into the past that shows there is still so much work to be done in the name of equality and diversity. However it also manages to portray the rush of teenage feelings, hope for change and strong familial bonds in a way that many novels double in size do not. I highly recommend this novel for those who want to read a contemporary story that truly engages the reader and doesn't try to make the world into something it's not, but also still leaves hope for a better future.This review was originally posted on Girl in the Pages
liz089
Written on Nov 1, 2018
Like 10/10 for diversity. It is incredibly cool to be reading about a young Muslim girl and how she experiences high school. It was so sad sometimes, and even though you wish the world was not like this, it is. And it is good to write about it, make people more aware.
4.5 stars, because I did not always felt completely pulled in ?
Amber
Written on Aug 19, 2018
This story was absolutely wonderful. The book follows Shirin as she deals with life and arsehole classmates and neighbours. I did wonder if Shirin was a bit of a self insert by the author, but to be honest I don't really care if she is. Shirin was a lovely character to read. She's just so good, and I can't even explain why. I just really enjoyed reading about her and her life and her struggles. I liked how fierce she is.
Also, I have to mention the romance. The romance! I loved it! I can't remember the last time I said this about a book but OH MY GOD it was so great. I ship it. Ocean, the love interest, was lovely.
One thing that I was wondering was why it was set one year after 9/11. I'm not sure how much it really added to the plot, since I'm sure Muslim girls go through all of this stuff nowadays in 2018. If anyone is able to enlighten me, please do! This isn't a complaint, I'm just really not sure what the point was.
Sana loved it as well, and I think we should all trust her opinion.
I really hope Mafi writes more contemporary because I loved this and I will definitely read more from her. Unless it's YA paranormal/dystopia because I'm not sure I can trust that.
cornerfolds
Written on Jul 11, 2018
It's no secret around here that I don't usually read contemporary fiction. I'm also not a huge fan of the Shatter Me series, so you might be wondering why I even decided to read A Very Large Expanse of Sea. I heard Tahereh Mafi talk about this book and learned that it was really an autobiographical book and I was instantly interested in knowing more of her story.
The main character of this story is Shirin, a Muslim-American girl living in the aftermath of 9/11. I found Shirin to be a wonderfully written character. She's strong and passionate and I adored her relationships with her brother and friends! I loved her passion for break-dancing, although I found it a bit repetitive. That's probably because I literally don't know how to dance though...
But what about the romance? I loved Ocean! I loved Ocean and Shirin together! What I didn't care for was the never ending angst. It was so hard to watch Ocean try to get close to Shirin, see her want to be close to him, but repeatedly shut him out. It also happens to be a trope that I really can't stand. I can understand her reluctance, but I have a really hard time with the back and forth angsty relationships that often plague YA and NA contemporary romance. When they were together, though, they were magic.
One of the reasons I wanted to read this book is because I have absolutely no idea what it's like to be Muslim in America, especially during such a turbulent time. I found it very easy to sympathize with Shirin and difficult to read about the abuse she received from the Islamophobic people she had to deal with. The constant badgering from those around her, the derogatory comments and questions, were awful. Unfortunately, it caused her to be angry and closed off and often harsh, hence the angst with Ocean.
Something I really liked about this book was that the writing. It was much different from Mafi's previous books and much easier for me to read. In fact, I blew through this book in a couple days. A Very Large Expanse of Sea is an impactful, eye opening book and I think it's going to be an important one. It definitely helped me to understand a bit more and I wish I'd had access to books like this as a teenager growing up in the south where people were not always welcoming.
The end of this book was perfect. I loved Shirin's character growth and the way her relationships with those around her progressed. Overall, I really enjoyed A Very Large Expanse of Sea. It's honest and a fantastic coming of age story! I definitely recommend it to fans of Tahereh Mafi and contemporary fiction.
Linda
Written on Jun 8, 2018
I wish the book was already out, that way, I could use it in my classroom this coming semester.