★★★☆ // this character feels both archetypal and relatable. i find that this is the life that i’ll probably choose if i didn’t have... responsibilities. and i don’t mean that in a condescending way. it would be so peaceful and fulfilling to live your life surrounded with the absolute best thing you love, and to use this as a way to connect with more people. i didn’t find Tom necessary to the story, to be honest. i feel like this book would still work without him, and that it would be even better if it was focused solely on Nina’s reconnection with a family she didn’t know and getting to know her father, even if it’s just through anecdotes and stories. she was a lonely character looking for a home—a place to belong—and this extended family feels like the right place to be. still, it was an enjoyable read all throughout. gained a couple of (unsolicited) advice that i will forever treasure.
”I’m not saying you shouldn’t be alone; there’s a lot to be said for it. But if you’re choosing to be alone because you’re scared of other people, resist that fear. Trust people with your truth, and bravely tell them you’re not brave at all.”