The Henna Wars by Adiba Jaigirdar

The Henna Wars

by Adiba Jaigirdar

When Nishat comes out to her parents, they say she can be anyone she wants - as long as she isn’t herself. Because Muslim girls aren’t lesbians. Nishat doesn’t want to hide who she is, but she also doesn’t want to lose her relationship with her family. And her life only gets harder once a childhood friend walks back into her life.

Flavia is beautiful and charismatic and Nishat falls for her instantly. But when a school competition invites students to create their own businesses, both Flavia and Nishat choose to do henna, even though Flavia is appropriating Nishat’s culture. Amidst sabotage and school stress, their lives get more tangled - but Nishat can’t quite get rid of her crush on Flavia, and realises there might be more to her than she realised.

Reviewed by lessthelonely on

4 of 5 stars

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4/5 stars.

At this point, I'mma just start going for a queer romance everytime I'm in a reading slump, which was happening because of the book I tried reading (Sol by Con Riley) left me very dissappointed and after a steady like... 5 books that rocked my socks off? That takes a big toll.

There's proof that I don't enjoy DNFing and that I don't DNF easily: often enough, DNFing a book leaves me with no willpower to grab any other book. But I pulled through and grabbed this one!

Simply put: I wasn't expecting to get so much into this. I read most of this while letting my dog play around my yard and it was a great read. I loved the cultural insight, all the beautiful things about henna. I felt for Nishat in every step of the way, specially with the homophobia from her parents storyline - when written by non-queer people, it often feels like torture porn and "Oh, please feel sorry for me, please", but when it comes from queer people? I eat that shit up. I recoil from it. It always stays in my head and it never misses the mark in its realism. I wonder why!

Another incredibly nice surprise was Flávia! I didn't know I was going to get a Brazillian love interest to read about and it was great! I'm Portuguese, so though I can't claim to be Brazillian, I can surely understand Portuguese and it was very fun to read those parts and know exactly what I knew what I imagine a lot of readers (and Nishat, too!) didn't understand without some translating help.

It's hard to make contemporary romance engaging for me and this DELIVERED. I will definitely read other books by this author and knowing I now can read a fake-dating one? I'm very happy about that and believe me, I'll get my hands on this book physically and the other one as well.

You want a sweet, entertaining and charming romance? Pick this one up. NOW!

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