You Asked for Perfect by Laura Silverman

You Asked for Perfect

by Laura Silverman

"Wise‚ romantic‚ and painfully relatable."—Becky Albertalli, New York Times bestselling author of Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda
From acclaimed author Laura Silverman comes a timely novel about a bisexual teen's struggle when academic success and romantic happiness pull him in opposite directions, perfect for fans of Adam Silvera and Tamara Ireland Stone.
Ariel Stone has spent his life cultivating the perfect college résumé: first chair violinist, dedicated volunteer, active synagogue congregant, and expected valedictorian. He barely has time to think about a social life, let alone a relationship…until a failed calculus quiz puts his future on the line, forcing Ariel to enlist his classmate, Amir, as a tutor.
As the two spend more time together, Ariel discovers he may not like calculus, but he does like Amir. When he's with Amir, the crushing academic pressure fades away on, and a fuller and brighter world comes into focus. But college deadlines are still looming. And adding a new relationship to his long list of commitments may just push Ariel past his limit.
In a time where academic pressure on stressed teens couldn't be higher, You Asked for Perfect is a story full of empathy, honesty and heart for anyone who has ever questioned the price of perfection.
The perfect present for readers who want:Books featuring anxiety for teensQueer romanceGay young adult fictionJewish representationPraise for You Asked for Perfect:
An ALA Rainbow List Pick
2019 Books All Georgians Should Read List
2020 Georgia Author of the Year Awards Nominee
Chicago Public Library's Best Fiction for Older Readers List
"Who can resist a heartfelt romance?"—Booklist
"Silverman's novel hit me straight in the heart… It was powerful enough to make me want to be a better—yet still imperfect—person."—Bill Konigsberg, author of The Music of What Happens
"A coming-of-age novel that will charm readers with its relatable and diverse characters, quirky storyline, and interweaving of faith, queerness, and the everyday lives of seniors navigating the pressures of college applications, grades, and relationships. Heartwarming and engaging."—Kirkus

Reviewed by Sam@WLABB on

4 of 5 stars

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Ariel's life seemed perfect. He was valedictorian of his graduating class, scored a 1600 on his SAT, was first chair violin for his school orchestra, and appeared a shoe-in for admission to Harvard. However, things were not quite what they seemed, and Ariel's perfect veneer began to crack under the pressure of his senior year.

I love that Silverman took on this topic. I worked in a high school for over a decade, and I encountered many students, who like Ariel, were striving to be the best and to achieve perfection. The weight and the stress can take its toll on many, and that was what happened in You Asked For Perfect.

Something that immediately stood out to me was how spectacularly Silverman brought us into Ariel's chaotic world. One of the first notes I jotted down while reading this book, was how exhausted I felt after living one day with him. The pace, the planning, and the amount of things on his to-do list, all of it was overwhelming. Ariel unraveled slowly at first, but once he began to spin out, I was swept away in his whirlwind of emotions.

But Silverman didn't only explore the pressure Ariel was feeling and creating for himself, she also look at Pari, Isaac, Amir, Rachel, Malka, and Sook's stressors. Some of their stress came from similar sources, some were really different, but it was the ways they dealt with the pressure, which I found interesting.

Something I loved about this book was the connection Ariel had to his family. Maybe they didn't notice his downward spiral right away, but I would call his parent very present, and he shared the sweetest bond with his little sister. As busy as Ariel's parents were with their careers, they made time to sit down for Shabbot dinner each week and to attend temple together. They would also take time out to share what happened during the week via their "highlights and bloopers" game.

Can I just say, I loved the incorporation of Ariel's Jewish faith in this story. We spent serval Friday nights with the Stones, as well as the high holidays, and it was nice to see him in his community. I also thought it was wonderful that he found comfort in his faith.

Ariel grew quite a bit over this period of time. When his grip was slipping, Ariel let quite a few important people down. He let his emotions get the best of him, but when he stepped back, he saw and acknowledged the error of his ways. He also did some great things to atone for his mistakes, and it takes a pretty big person to do these things. I was proud of him, and the tough choices he made.

This would not be a typical review of mine, if I did not mention the romance. Let it be known, that I was a fan of this pairing. I actually thought it was fabulous the way the relationship sprouted so organically, and took root so well. Amir was very good for Ariel. I thought he balanced him out well, and pushed him to see things from a different perspective. It was cute, that they had a bit a history too, with their sisters' friendship and the closeness their families shared with one another.

Overall: An authentic look at the pressures teens face in the quest for that college acceptance, which incorporated family, faith, friendship, and romance.

Full review to follow.

*ARC provided in exchange for an honest review.

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