thepunktheory
Written on Apr 22, 2018
his book is a slap in the face - in the most positive way possible! For me it came as a wake-up call. Sheryl Sandberg points out many mistakes women (herself included) make in the professional world. I was kind of angry with myself when I realized how many of those I had already committed in the past without even noticing.
Many of the things Sandberg mentions happen unconsciously but it takes concious effort to change our little habits and to lean in.
What I love about this book is that it's 100 % relatable. No matter how perfect you are, I bet you'll find something in there that you did. But don't get me wrong, Lean In isn't just pages full of criticism. It's a reminder of what you can do if you set your mind to it. Sandberg gives detailed explanations stemming from years of experience that'll help you to work your way to the top (or as far up as you want to go).
Furthermore, Lean In is so important as it points out what is wrong in our society. Many of the little mistakes women commit are based on how they are taught to be and how they are perceived based on those ideals. Let me give you an example. Girls are taught to be pretty, make some nice comments but shut up when it comes to the big stuff. When, however, a woman does speak up, she's usually perceived as bossy, in contrast to her male colleagues who would be congratulated. These kinds of claims Sandberg makes in her book don't stem just from subjective opinions. Many of the points she mentions are backed up by studies.