Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng

Everything I Never Told You

by Celeste Ng

The acclaimed debut novel by the author of Little Fires Everywhere

“A taut tale of ever deepening and quickening suspense." -O, the Oprah Magazine

"Explosive...Both a propulsive mystery and a profound examination of a mixed-race family." -Entertainment Weekly

“Lydia is dead. But they don’t know this yet.” So begins this exquisite novel about a Chinese American family living in 1970s small-town Ohio. Lydia is the favorite child of Marilyn and James Lee, and her parents are determined that she will fulfill the dreams they were unable to pursue. But when Lydia’s body is found in the local lake, the delicate balancing act that has been keeping the Lee family together is destroyed, tumbling them into chaos. A profoundly moving story of family, secrets, and longing, Everything I Never Told You is both a gripping page-turner and a sensitive family portrait, uncovering the ways in which mothers and daughters, fathers and sons, and husbands and wives struggle, all their lives, to understand one another.

Reviewed by nannah on

4 of 5 stars

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Oh, I don’t read many mysteries, but I’m glad I picked this one up. It’s a very beautiful, thoughtful, and sad story about a tragic event causing a family to unravel and then come back together.

Content warnings:
- suicide

Representation:
- the main family (who are all POV characters) is biracial; the father is Chinese-American, and the children are Chinese and white.
- a secondary character is a gay/bisexual man, but this gets very little page time

The Lees are a mixed Chinese-American family living in Ohio in the 1970s. Their daughter, Lydia, the favorite and burdened with her parents’ dreams, has just shown up dead in the lake in front of their house. Without Lydia, the family seems to fall apart. And as the family piece together more behind her death, it’s clear none of them truly knew Lydia at all.

I have never read a book that captures someone falling out of love as realistically and perfectly as this one. This occurs both between the parents and between the parents and children. It’s unnerving how well Celeste Ng understands the minds of each of the characters and knows how they’ll react to every event.

I really don’t have much to say other than it’s a masterfully done story (though I should’ve counted how many times someone mashed their mushy cereal to nothing with their spoon. It had to be at least six or seven times). I'll be looking at what else Celeste Ng has written right after I post this review ...

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