I'm pretty sure American Betiya is the first book, YA or otherwise, that dealt with fetishization. Rani is eighteen and in love for the first time ever. She's not allowed to date, so she keeps Oliver a secret from her traditional Indian parents. The sneaking around adds an element of excitement to their already intense relationship. However, it's obvious early on that something is off about Oliver. He's a nice guy. He respects Rani's decision to not have sex right away. He asks questions about her culture. He centers her in his art. But...he also calls her Princess Jasmine and keeps pressing to come over and meet her family. But...Rani feels special and seen and loved!
I did read American Betiya nearly straight through because I was totally invested in this tumultuous relationship. Oliver's behavior gets progressively weirder and more obsessive and just...gross, honestly. Eventually, all of this does catch up with Rani in a big way! Unfortunately, the last quarter or so read more like a brochure about racism rather than Rani's real feelings. She confronts Oliver, talks to her best friend about it, and then has one last conversation with Oliver. All of which throw around every single buzzword possible and just didn't feel authentic. I absolutely loved that the author tackled this subject, but it became too textbook by the end.