Aviator's Wife

by Melanie Benjamin

[Whitney @ First Impressions Reviews]

Charles Lindbergh flew the Spirit of St. Louis to Paris and his baby was kidnapped. That's the gist of my knowledge of the Lindberghs. Much has been researched/documented on Charles Lindbergh but what about Lucky Lindy's co-pilot, his wife Anne Morrow Lindbergh? Like her first two novels Melanie Benjamin gives us a look at a magnificent woman behind the man.

I'm just going to come out and say it, Charles Lindbergh was an ass. I never got the impression that he genuinely cared about others nor did he always take into consideration other people's needs. It was very much Lucky Lindy's way or the highway. In short, because of his fame he came off like a spoiled brat.

Two examples of this involve their firstborn Charlie. At a very young age Charles Lindbergh (senior) practiced the Ferber method on his son. Not just letting him "cry it out" at bedtime but anytime and deprived him of a Mother's comfort as that would soften him up. Second, during Charlie's infancy, despite Anne's misgiving, the two of them hop on his plane and are gone for almost a year exploring the world with Lindbergh trying to regain some of his glory. Also, there is that whole thing about being anti-Semitic and buying into Hitler's pure race agenda. These heinous believes blackballed him, with the United States losing faith in their hero at a time so desperately needed.

It is also briefly mentioned that Charles Lindbergh went to (if only for a semester) the University of Wisconsin which is where my dad went as well. I mentioned this to him, and told me he was actually embarrassed about that as after reading a biography on the aviator, someone he admired, came up with the same conclusion as me: "Charles Lindbergh was an ass."

Anne, is the unpopular, plain one in the Morrow family until she is thrown into a whirlwind with the marriage of the century to Charles Lindbergh and immediately becomes a tabloid sensation, with her every move being watched. Anne, is submissive to her husband and (although did find her voice later in life) while I myself am not the most outspoken person found it irksome that this intelligent, college graduate woman would degrade herself so.

Despite that I found that she was the Lindbergh to look to as a role model. Not only was she fluent in aviation/coordinates but was also the first female to obtain her pilot's licence and a best selling author to boot. An example of her thoughtful mind is her disagreement on Charles believe in cleansing the Jewish population as Anne just saw them as people looking past the Star of David on their chest. And in spite of it all, I believe Charles admired her too.

Now for the second thing I know about the Lindbergh's, the kidnapping of Charles A. Lindbergh Jr. when he was only 20 months old. It was heartbreaking to see these events play out not as Mr. and Mrs. Lindbergh but as two parents facing their greatest nightmare, to only have their hopes crushed like their baby's skull.

I have read several articles on the case and it has been speculated several times that Little Charlie's father may be to blame, a practical joke gone wrong. If true, it makes it even more horrific. How could one live with themselves?

The Aviator's Wife is so rich in detail that if I were to describe it all it would be as long as Lucky Lindy's flight. I will only say that the drenching beautiful storytelling is filled to the brim with discovery. Whether it be sexual orientation or finding your voice, I was flying on cloud nine while indulging in The Aviator's Wife. Melanie Benjamin shows us that there is so much more to Anne's story than just Charles Lindbergh's wife.