As a teenager and young man, Justin Lee felt deeply torn. Nicknamed "God Boy" by his peers, he knew that he was called to a life in the evangelical Christian ministry. But Lee harbored a secret: He also knew that he was gay. In this groundbreaking book, Lee recalls the events--his coming out to his parents, his experiences with the "ex-gay" movement, and his in-depth study of the Bible--that led him, eventually, to self-acceptance.
But more than just a memoir, TORN provides insightful, practical guidance for all committed Christians who wonder how to relate to gay friends or family members--or who struggle with their own sexuality. Convinced that "in a culture that sees gays and Christians as enemies, gay Christians are in a unique position to bring peace," Lee demonstrates that people of faith on both sides of the debate can respect, learn from, and love one another.
This is an essential read. The author, himself a gay Christian, shares his personal journey and looks at both sides of the ‘gays vs Christians’ debate in a very honest and straightforward way. Although his conclusions may not be agreeable for everyone, they are still worth considering. Overall, he asks for more love and understanding from both sides. No matter where you sit in regards to this topic, I highly recommend this one to you.
