Getting Free

by Ginny NiCarthy

Published 1 January 1986
A most important work in the movement to end domestic violence, Getting Free has helped change the lives of thousands of women. Experienced counselor Ginny NiCarthy presents exercises and practical advice for overcoming fears, finding shelter, evaluating doctors and lawyers, and more.

You Can Be Free

by Ginny NiCarthy and Sue Davidson

Published 1 May 1989
If you are a woman being hurt by someone you love, this book is for you. It can help you understand your situation and find ways to change it. This indispensable guide offers straightforward, sensible information on how to establish a safety plan for you and your children, as well as advice on how best to find a safer home. This new edition also includes guidance specifically for Deaf women, immigrant women, rural women, and women with disabilities. It also includes special exercises designed to help you gain self-esteem and decide what you want from a relationship. You will find answers to such questions as:

"What is emotional abuse?"
"Is it ever right to break up the family?"
"How can I protect my children?"
"Where can I go if I leave my home?"
"But I still love my partner should I go back?"
"How can I find legal help for my situation?"
"How do I go about starting over and making new friends?"


You will also read about women who left their abusive partners and began new lives free of abuse. Today they have this to say: "I'm asking for what I want . . . I can make decisions on my own . . . What I like best about being away is being free."