The Farm

by Joanne Ramos

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NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY The Globe and Mail • Glamour • TIME • Real Simple • Good Housekeeping • Marie Claire • Town & Country • Bustle

"[Joanne] Ramos's debut novel couldn't be more relevant or timely." —O: The Oprah Magazine

Life is a lucrative business, as long as you play by the rules.

Nestled in New York's Hudson Valley is a luxury retreat boasting every amenity: organic meals, personal fitness trainers, daily massages—and all of it for free. In fact, you're paid big money to stay here—more than you've ever dreamed of. The catch? For nine months, you cannot leave the grounds, your movements are monitored, and you are cut off from your former life while you dedicate yourself to the task of producing the perfect baby. For someone else.

Jane, an immigrant from the Philippines, is in desperate search of a better future when she commits to being a "Host" at Golden Oaks—or the Farm, as residents call it. But now pregnant, fragile, consumed with worry for her family, Jane is determined to reconnect with her life outside. Yet she cannot leave the Farm or she will lose the life-changing fee she'll receive on the delivery of her child.

Gripping, provocative, heartbreaking, The Farm pushes to the extremes our thinking on motherhood, money, and merit and raises crucial questions about the trade-offs women will make to fortify their futures and the futures of those they love.

• ISBN10: 1984853759
• ISBN13: 9781984853752
• Publish Date: 7 May 2019
• Publish Status: Out of Stock
• Publish Country: US
• Imprint: Random House USA Inc
• Format: Hardcover
• Pages: 336
• Language: English

Reviews

[Veronica 🦦]

B | This is the sort of book that -- if I was an ethics professor -- I'd want my students to read. It will not only force you to examine your own beliefs on the immigration experience, parenthood, surrogacy, a surrogate's rights, and wealth, but it will also anger you and make you uncomfortable. It is a reflection on our society, class, reproductive rights, parenthood, the American dream, and the Filipino immigrant experience. While its execution could have been better as aspects of the story were rushed or simply skimmed over, this is a solid book nevertheless.

Now, before I get into the rest of this review, please note that this is an #ownvoices review. I make this statement as a Filipino immigrant living in NYC with a Filipino mother who made the move here to the US before sending for me so I could have a better life here.

I think that this book will be uncomfortable for many reasons.

It forces us to examine our beliefs on parenthood, surrogacy, immigration, and wealth. The book grabs our heads and legitimately forces us to examine what the American Dream actually means. We are all forced to confront the fact that we are not free. We are all bound by something: responsibilities, economic status, social status, and family.

For some Americans, it will also force you to look at this country’s collective hero complex and how many people believe that they are the heroes. It will also make you question whether you are playing a hero to actually help those in need or simply to make yourself feel better. It forces the rich especially to confront how they speak about Filipinos and other human beings as well as examine how they “share” their wealth.

For Filipinos, it will force us to confront the truth that for the first generation Filipinos who emigrate here, life can be uncomfortable and hard. We are forced to see that our parents, grandparents, and other relatives who moved here first made a lot of sacrifices for their family, even if it meant taking shit from everyone else. Why do they do it? For their family.

It also shoves it into our faces that it’s not just the rich Americans who are exploiting our people. Rich Filipinos are also exploiting our people — bringing women and men from the homeland with promises of money, a job, and a roof over their heads — only to deny them of those promises while extracting labor from them nonetheless.

This book makes you do a double-take and question: What is the American Dream?

I wanted a better ending for Jane. But given the circumstances, I think it works. Jane’s version of the American dream is to provide a stable future for her daughter. It’s why she started this journey in the first place: for her daughter. Will it bite her in the hypothetical future? Perhaps!

I have no doubt that Amalia will be hiding her mother’s real job, that she’d reach a point where she’d be ashamed of her mother and what her mother is doing for money. I’m sure that she’d lie to her classmates and say her mom is a nurse (and yes, she’ll emphasize nurse because she’d be too ashamed to admit her mother is a nanny/caretaker). There is no doubt in my mind that Amalia — like many readers — will never understand why.

Yes, Jane deserved a better ending.

She deserved to be able to run off with her daughter with enough money to support them so that maybe she can get her GED and go to college. But this ending she got worked. She might not be rich. She might not be getting her degrees or living in an apartment in Forest Hills. However, her daughter has a roof over her head, clothes on her back, food in her belly, access to toys she might never have had otherwise, and a relationship with a woman who has taken an interest in her and her future.

This is Jane’s American Dream.

For the longer version of this review (which will be posted 01 Sept. 2020), check out my blog, moon & coffee.