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Written on May 21, 2020
“I grew up in a church culture that rewarded people pleasing, that punished those who ask too many questions, that pushed out those who seemed too angry or grieved too long.”
I love how she makes it a point to remind everyone that marginalized people can go to church while feeling angry, feeling furious, asking hard questions, fighting against what is wrong within the church! Everyone’s story is important, and truth-telling is at the heart of this: listening and learning from one another, caring about each other’s experiences. This strengthens community, and we can fight injustice and systems of dehumanization together. This is good fruit!
This is such a loving book. Curtice has strong words that cry out against injustice, but her ideas for fighting injustice are grounded in loving one another. (She is so much like her friend Rachel Held Evans in this way.) When people are left out of the church, everyone suffers because they’re missing out on wonderfully rich, honest relationships. In this regard, decolonization is a spiritual matter. So, how do we find reconciliation? How do we come together? Curtice has a hopeful perspective throughout the book, as well as tangible suggestions for steps that can be taken to heal. She reminds us that there is room for everyone at the table.