The Dead Wife's Handbook

by Hannah Beckerman

If you read If Only I could Tell You, you'll be captivated by this emotional and uplifting story of love, loss and second chances.

'Today is my death anniversary. A year ago today I was still alive.'

Rachel, Max and their daughter Ellie had the perfect life - until the night Rachel's heart stopped beating.

Now Max and Ellie are doing their best to adapt to life without Rachel, and just as her family can't forget her, Rachel can't quite let go of them either.

Caught in a place between worlds, Rachel watches helplessly as she begins to fade from their lives. And when Max is persuaded by family and friends to start dating again, Rachel starts to understand that dying was just the beginning of her problems.

As Rachel grieves for the life she's lost and the life she'll never lead, she learns that sometimes the thing that breaks your heart might be the very thing you hope for.

Fans of Marian Keyes, Jojo Moyes and Claire Mackintosh will love this unforgettable and poignant novel.
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'Beautifully written and full of love' Fern Britton

'A moving and intriguing debut novel' Fabulous Magazine

• ISBN10: 141047836X
• ISBN13: 9781410478368
• Publish Date: 15 April 2015 (first published 13 February 2014)
• Publish Status: Out of Print
• Out of Print: 9 July 2021
• Imprint: Thorndike Press
• Edition: Large type / large print edition
• Format: Hardcover
• Pages: 678
• Language: English

Reviews

[Linda]

*I received a free ARC of The Dead Wife's Handbook from Edelweiss in exchange of an honest and unbiased review*

ARC received on September 24th 2014

WOW, The Dead Wife's Handbook is a 37-year-old woman's journey of grief, after her own death. Dealing with her feelings of having left her husband and child behind, and all of the stages of grief that the living usually live through after the death of someone close to them.

Full review to come soon.

This and all my other reviews are originally posted on my blog (un)Conventional Bookviews

[Leah]

As soon as I heard about Hannah Beckerman’s debut novel The Dead Wife’s Handbook I knew this was a book I HAD to read. I knew it had the potential to be a massive debut – and make Hannah Beckerman an instant Chick Lit favourite, and I adore the cover. I also really love novels about the afterlife – Heaven Can Wait by Cally Taylor, Twenties Girl by Sophie Kinsella, I think books like that offer a unique insight into something you don’t normally come across in Chick Lit, and I love authors unafraid to branch out into a topic some may find strange. I embrace it. I LOVE Chick Lit books with something different, it’s what sets them apart, and I was so excited to see if Hannah’s debut novel would be as amazing as the hype surrounding it and I am very pleased to report that The Dead Wife’s Handbook more than makes up for the hype surrounding it. In fact, if possible, it surpasses the hype, and it was amazing.

Chick Lit fans are always going to be a bit wary of a novel about a dead person. It just isn’t the Chick Lit style, is it? So far, I’ve found them to be amazing reads, personally. I can now add The Dead Wife’s Handbook to my list of favourite ghost-type Chick Lit. The Dead Wife’s Handbook is clever in so many ways. Firstly, it’s divided in to all the parts of grief people generally go through – denial, anger, acceptance, bargaining etc, which is a very clever tactic, and breaks up the book quite nicely. I sort of also liked how the book didn’t go into too much detail about where Rachel was. Instead, the book, quite rightly, took the approach that Rachel was in this place, and every so often a white light would appear/disappear and she would be able to view what was going on in the real world, as opposed to the ‘purgatory’ if you will of where she found herself. It was basically the story of how a dead wife had to see her husband and daughter move their life on, and it was all very real.

I was sort of torn over Rachel. I liked her, don’t get me wrong, but without sounding daft (or perhaps missing the point) she seemed superflous to the story. I understand she was there to watch over Max and Ellie, and I actually loved her narration, but the book would have also worked if she wasn’t there (but with a different title, and er, premise sorta. I’ve just convinced myself the book did need Rachel). But on the other hand, if Rachel hadn’t been part of the book, it wouldn’t have been half as emotional, and boy was it. The worst case of grief I’ve ever had to go through was losing my dog and that was bloody awful, so I can’t imagine what it’s like to not be able to see your kid any more. Or worse, to see your kid and not be able to do anything. Unbearable. It was so hard sometimes to keep reading about all these wonderful memories Rachel had, and to see her answering her loved ones but without them being able to hear, it was just devastating. Plus, that purgatory place sounds HORRIBLE.

My absolute favourite parts of the novel were the interactions between Max and Ellie. What they go through is so awful, so life-changing and I loved how they muddled through together, with family stepping in where necessary (but not overstepping, which was also pretty cool). Dads aren’t always given the best rap in books, but I would happily have Max as my dad, he was amazing. So whenever Rachel was judging him for something, I did cringe, like when it came to his new friend Eve, I felt Max judged his timing of everything quite well – as well as you can, when you’re factoring in how an 8-year-old grief-stricken girl will react and to see Rachel pounding on him was hard, because I felt she was quite judgemental. I could see her points of view as a mother, but on the other hand, she wasn’t the one going through the terrible loss and having to make life worth living again, so how do you judge when it’s OK to move on? It’s like people say, time’s a healer. It did create some friction for me, because I was actually Team Max. As you can see The Dead Wife’s Handbook tied me up in knots. I really, really enjoyed it, but there were definitely some times when I questioned the novel – all good novels should provoke questions, right? It was such a good book, Beckerman is an amazing writer, and this is one of the most beautiful portrayals of grief I will probably ever read. It totally lived up to the hype, and then some.