In this empowering, accessible guide, Jaclyn Friedman co-editor of Yes Means Yes gives young women the tools to decipher the modern world's confusing, hypersexualized, sometimes dangerous landscape so they can define their own sexual identity. Friedman decries the hypocrisy and mixed messages of our culture (we're failures if we don't act sexy, but we're sluts if we actually pursue sex; we need to be protected from rapists lurking in bushes, but deserve "whatever we get" if we have a drink at a party and wear a skirt), and encourages readers to separate fear from fact, decode the damaging messages all around them, and discover a healthy personal sexuality.
Educational and interactive, What You Really Really Want includes revealing quizzes, creative exercises, and reality-based advice about sex and sexuality today. With Friedman's informed advice to guide them, readers will build new skills for safely expressing their sexuality with lovers and explore effective ways to talk about tricky issues with family and friends and learn how to make the world a little safer for everyone else's sexuality along the way.
- ISBN10 1580054307
- ISBN13 9781580054300
- Publish Date 25 October 2011 (first published 1 January 2011)
- Publish Status Active
- Publish Country US
- Imprint Seal Press
- Format eBook
- Pages 352
- Language English