Tom and his wife Pam recently celebrated 50 years of marriage. They have three adult children and four grandchildren. Tom obtained a masters degree from UC Berkeley in mechanical engineering and worked for Shell Oil company for 5 years. He then obtained a masters degree in counseling and worked as a school psychologist for five years. For the past 37 years he has had a private practice in Ventura, CA as a Marriage and Family Therapist. Tom and his wife Pam recently moved to Oakland, CA. Tom has written a total of six books and he has conducted hundreds of workshops on personal, marriage and parenting issues. You can reach Tom at his email address: dragonprinz@yahoo.com