She will take you through the heart wrenching experience of the unexpected loss of her husband after fifty-eight years of marriage. They felt so blessed with how your family was growing and planned to live a long life together. She shares with you how her family stayed close as they planned for the burial and Celebration of Life. Getting ready for a wedding of one granddaughter and new baby to soon join the family with another granddaughter. How do you keep it together when your world had been turned upside down? She will share her experience of sessions with a Medium to contact her loved one, and the unexpected results. She interviewed other widows who shared their experiences and how they worked through the grief process. Tamara felt like she was independent, self-sufficient, and could handle anything that came her way. She will give the reader ideas they need to know and do to be prepared to be the one left behind. Don't fool yourself. It could happen to you.