The twentieth anniversary edition of the best-selling parenting guide includes updated information as well as the practical, sensible advice that made the book a classic to begin with.

This guide is designed to help parents with the problem of antagonism between their children. One of the greatest sources of stress in families is bickering between siblings. Often, parents are forced to resign themselves to the prevalent strife. The authors of this handbook refuse to accept that nothing can be done about sibling rivalry. Drawing on their years of experience in teaching communication skills to parents, the authors aim to devise simple but effective ways of reducing antagonism between siblings. Each suggestion is backed up with the experience of real parents and their children. Vivid dialogue and cartoons illuminate the many forms of this problem and show how to promote co-operation rather than competition. Typical problems are tackled, such as helping children to express their negative feelings about each other without inflicting damage, how to treat children unequally and still remain fair, how to be helpful to both the "bully" and the "victim", and how to reduce rage between battling siblings and encourage them to sort out their differences.
Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish are the authors of the workshop kit "How to talk so kids will listen", currently in use by groups throughout the world.

From the #1 New York Times bestselling authors of How To Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk and Siblings Without Rivalry, a new edition of the timeless paperback and audio guide that provides parents with need-to-know basics about how to communicate effectively with their children-now with additional material and workbook exercises.

Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish's down-to-earth, respectful approach to parenting has improved the lives of countless families throughout the world. Now, the authors' wisdom and advice are collected in this concise new edition of How to Be the Parent You Always Wanted to Be-an essential workbook and audio guide to their widely embraced and empowering methods of parenting-uniquely designed for busy parents on the go. Faber and Mazlish address the struggles parents face every day. By listening to this recording and doing the workbook exercises, you'll learn how to:

*Deal with your children's strong emotions

*Set firm limits and still maintain goodwill

*Express your angry feelings without being hurtful

*Engage your children's cooperation

*Resolve family conflicts peacefully

Loaded with real-life stories, delightful cartoons, and answers to commonly asked questions, this new multimedia edition demonstrates simple, proven skills that can make relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding.

An invaluable guide to bringing out the best in relationships between parents and children. Award-winning experts Faber and Mazlish offer advice and examples on the countless ways the use of language can:
- Build self-esteem
- Inspire confidence
- Encourage responsibility


From the widely-acclaimed HOW TO TALK series, discover the tools to combat the often stormy years of adolescence.

Packed with practical, accessible advice and guidelines, both parents and teens will learn how to:

* Engage cooperation
* Take appropriate action
* Avoid lectures
* Express your feelings and understand each other
* Work out solutions together

From the widely-acclaimed HOW TO TALK series, leading parenting experts show how to motivate kids to learn.

Using the unique communication strategies, down-to-earth dialogues, and cartoons that are the hallmark of their bestselling book, HOW TO TALK SO KIDS WILL LISTEN, Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish demonstrate how to:

* Invite cooperation
* Avoid the pitfalls of punishment
* Effectively give praise and criticism
* Engage creativity and commitment

The breakthrough book demonstrates how adults can join forces to inspire kids to be self-directed, self-disciplined, and responsive to the wonders of learning.