The Way Out: How to Overcome Toxic Polarization

by Peter T Coleman

The partisan divide in the United States has widened to a chasm. Legislators vote along party lines and rarely cross the aisle. Political polarization is personal, too—and it is making us miserable. Surveys show that Americans have become more fearful and hateful of supporters of the opposing political party and imagine that they hold much more extreme views than they actually do. We have cordoned ourselves off: we prefer to date and marry those with similar opinions and are less willing to spend time with people on the other side. How can we loosen the grip of this toxic polarization and start working on our most pressing problems?

The Way Out offers an escape from this morass. The social psychologist Peter T. Coleman explores how conflict resolution and complexity science provide guidance for dealing with seemingly intractable political differences. Deploying the concept of attractors in dynamical systems, he explains why we are stuck in this rut as well as the unexpected ways that deeply rooted oppositions can and do change. Coleman meticulously details principles and practices for navigating and healing the difficult divides in our homes, workplaces, and communities, blending compelling personal accounts from his years of working on entrenched conflicts with lessons from leading-edge research. The Way Out is a vital and timely guide to breaking free from the cycle of mutual contempt in order to better our lives, relationships, and country.

• ISBN10: 0231197403
• ISBN13: 9780231197403
• Publish Date: 1 June 2021
• Publish Status: Active
• Publish Country: US
• Imprint: Columbia University Press
• Format: Hardcover
• Pages: 296
• Language: English

Reviews

[Jeff Sexton]

Conflicts as Advanced Mathematics and Theoretical Astrophysics. I gotta admit, as a more "hard" science / numbers guy, when I saw that Coleman's solution here was based in the realms of advanced mathematics and theoretical astrophysics - gravity wells, complexity theory, etc - I was astonished to see someone put into words ideas I'd long thought of in conflicts in my own life. Though the way Coleman is much more systematic and systemic about them is simply phenomenal bordering on the profound. Yes, the man is an admitted progressive and yes, some of his throw away level comments are solidly from that perspective, but if you're of a type who would normally throw a book down in disgust just over those points alone (or if you're the type who would do those if he were an admitted conservative making similar comments)... you're pretty well exactly who needs to read this book anyway. ;) Pretty spectacular, and a *needed* read pretty well right this second - I write this review at the beginning of US Presidential Inauguration Week 2021, nearly six full months before the book's scheduled publication at the beginning of June. Something tells me the book will be at least as relevant as it currently is at that point, and you should absolutely read and strongly consider Coleman's points as soon as you can. Very much recommended.