This collection of Wilchins' writings is provocative and thought-provoking. I felt like everything I thought I believed was being turned inside out and back again. Also, Wilchins seems to be speaking to others within the queer community, which felt like a big hug. I recently read Serano's WHIPPING GIRL, and this was a perfect follow-up book for working through concepts that were still spinning their wheels in my mind. Love the hopefulness of this book, too!